A fateful meeting - how to change fate

paradigm shift

People don't change attitude, you can change, attitude change

Mental laws - the law of control
Fixed internal locus of control-talent, variable internal locus of control-skill
External locus of control fixed-fate, external locus of control variable-luck

values and principles
People behave like robots according to the value system they have adopted or instilled in them

- The story of the yeshiva student from Mea-Shearim and the Jerusalemite involved in pita
- The Hamas suicide bombers and the 70 virgins waiting for them in heaven
- "Chronic" latecomers are unable not to be late

Pleasure and pain - the priorities in the brain

Exercise - the priorities of values. Values that cause pleasure which we want to preserve
Values that cause pain, which we want to avoid

Values and principles of the individual

Exercise - rank the values and principles of the individual that appear in the chapters of ancestors
The story of the unmarried teacher
The story of the second marriage

Benjamin Franklin's method for changing destiny
Every week he would concentrate on one principle and try to stick to it
At the end of the day he would point out that if he failed in a certain principle, it was important to him not to fail in the weekly principle
13 weeks later he made a complete turn, and started again

Rockefeller's principles
Despite his wealth, the rabbi lived according to a system of 10 values and principles that served him
If this is true of a rich man, how much more so of the poor
"I believe in the supreme value of every person and his right to life, freedom, and the pursuit of wealth"

The principles of Armand Hamer
Helping people who deserve help, as best I can....

The ten commandments for the new man
The end of the age of fear - the separation
The beginning of the era of love - unity